Never been to a Jewish wedding? Here’s what you might see…
- The Rabbi
Rabbi Patrick Beaulier is the officiant of the ceremony. Rabbis are Jewish religious leaders, similar to pastors or imams. - Yarmulkes/Kippot
These are religious head coverings said during prayer. Anyone is welcome to wear one. - The Ketubah
Before the big day, or even before the main ceremony, the couple will sign the Ketubah, a marriage contract that turns their vows into a beautiful piece of art. - The Chuppah
They’ll get married under the Chuppah, a canopy that represents the home they’re building together. It’s open on all sides, symbolizing that their home will always be open to friends and family. - Hakafot (Circling)
To kick things off, the couple will circle each other three times. This symbolizes building their new home together and represents the virtues of righteousness, justice, and loving kindness. - Kiddushin (Wine)
They’ll each drink from two cups of wine: one for the marriage proposal and the other for the nuptials. By shaking both cups, they show their commitment to share both the joys and the challenges of life. - Ring Exchange and Vows
Tradition calls for simple wedding bands. The couple will place rings on each other’s ring fingers as a sign of their love and commitment. The couple will say vows that Rabbi Patrick recites to them. - Sheva Brachot
The Seven Blessings will be recited next, placing the couple in a broader social and sacred context. After the blessings, they’ll share a second cup of wine. Sheva Brachot sometimes includes family and friends. Other times, it’s just the couple and the rabbi - Tallit and Breaking of the Glass
The ceremony wraps up (literally!) with the couple wrapping one another in a Jewish prayer shawl (tallit) and breaking a glass under their feet. This serves as a reminder that life includes both happy and sad moments. When they break the glass, be sure to shout “Mazel Tov!” to wish them congratulations and good luck.
Other Elements You Might See:
- Bedeken
This is the veiling ceremony where the groom veils the bride, symbolizing modesty and the groom’s commitment to clothe and protect his wife. - Yichud
After the ceremony, the couple spends a few private moments together in a secluded room, signifying their new status as a married couple. - Hora Dance
At the reception, you might see the couple being lifted in chairs while everyone dances in a circle. It’s a fun and lively tradition!
